过去不读书，现在已经输
现在不读书，将来还是输
有钱多买书，有闲多读书
读书要用功，读书一用功
道理容易通，道理一旦通
读书就轻松，读书读得好
工作就好找，工作找得好
生活更美好，孩子从小要教好
长大以后乖乖就好，
钱多钱少，够用就好
名不名牌，能穿就好
学问好不如做事好，做事好，
不如做人好，你好我好大家好
社会好国家好，世界更美好
心好命又好，富贵直到老
2010年4月22日星期四
人与人的区别
人与人的区别在于一个人的思想品性和思维方式，成功或者失败同样存在于此；
其实人与人的头脑和潜力并无太大大差距，有些人之所以能够出人头地就是因为他对待问题的思维方式和解决事情的方法跟别人不同。
人们哇哇落地时并无任何区别，经过了后天的培养，塑造，磨练，环境影响，以致人与人差距越来越大；在现实生活中很多人的思维方式都是顺向思维，顺其自然，很少叛逆，排斥和反驳。好多人说，人一出生命运就已注定，也许跟这个有一定关系；因为很多人一生都不能冲破命运的枷锁。也有人这样说人的外表很重要，一个好的面貌可帮助一个人成功，但并非重要因素。其实人与人长相也并无太大差距，大致都是一张鼻子，一张嘴，两只眼睛，两只耳朵。最重要在于一个人的品行，看待，面对问题和解决的方法。心灵上的美更大于外在的美。人活着简简单单的说都有一个目标和希望，少年树立志向，中年希望平稳，老年希望安逸。其目标和希望区别在于它存在的价值与意义。一个人的胸怀与思想是注定理想，目标的得标码，思维方式和处事方法是成功的决定因素，良好的品性是注定一个人成功关键所在。
人的一生之所以局限自身，不能够实现真正的理想与目标，正因为思考的方式，思想修为不能够达到局限之外。丰富的人生经历可以使人不断思考问题，不断积累经验，从而不断成长。磨难和挫折更助于人迅速成长，打破局限。富人和穷人，一开始并无任何区别，区别在于后天的磨练，思考，解决问题的方法。其实天才与常人也并无太大区别，天才只不过针对某件事或物极度痴迷，不断研究，付出，与摸索，是自己的潜能在某种意识上已超越极限，让人称之为天才。每个人都有潜在的意识和能力，即使遇到再大风波，挫折与磨难，请不要放弃生活，理想，希望，事事都有解决的方案，只要你勇敢的走下去，就一定可以解决！！
其实人与人的头脑和潜力并无太大大差距，有些人之所以能够出人头地就是因为他对待问题的思维方式和解决事情的方法跟别人不同。
人们哇哇落地时并无任何区别，经过了后天的培养，塑造，磨练，环境影响，以致人与人差距越来越大；在现实生活中很多人的思维方式都是顺向思维，顺其自然，很少叛逆，排斥和反驳。好多人说，人一出生命运就已注定，也许跟这个有一定关系；因为很多人一生都不能冲破命运的枷锁。也有人这样说人的外表很重要，一个好的面貌可帮助一个人成功，但并非重要因素。其实人与人长相也并无太大差距，大致都是一张鼻子，一张嘴，两只眼睛，两只耳朵。最重要在于一个人的品行，看待，面对问题和解决的方法。心灵上的美更大于外在的美。人活着简简单单的说都有一个目标和希望，少年树立志向，中年希望平稳，老年希望安逸。其目标和希望区别在于它存在的价值与意义。一个人的胸怀与思想是注定理想，目标的得标码，思维方式和处事方法是成功的决定因素，良好的品性是注定一个人成功关键所在。
人的一生之所以局限自身，不能够实现真正的理想与目标，正因为思考的方式，思想修为不能够达到局限之外。丰富的人生经历可以使人不断思考问题，不断积累经验，从而不断成长。磨难和挫折更助于人迅速成长，打破局限。富人和穷人，一开始并无任何区别，区别在于后天的磨练，思考，解决问题的方法。其实天才与常人也并无太大区别，天才只不过针对某件事或物极度痴迷，不断研究，付出，与摸索，是自己的潜能在某种意识上已超越极限，让人称之为天才。每个人都有潜在的意识和能力，即使遇到再大风波，挫折与磨难，请不要放弃生活，理想，希望，事事都有解决的方案，只要你勇敢的走下去，就一定可以解决！！
2010年4月21日星期三
The Hidden Superpowers of Your Mind by Michael Lee
The mind is an infinite wonder. It has the fantastic ability totransmute your desires into their physical counterparts. You can doanything that your mind can conceive, as long as you have thebelief and will power to back it up.Take the case of cancer patients who were given placebo pills.These are just plain pills that have no healing capabilities. Sohow did they get well?The power came from their thoughts. They were told that these pillscontain the highest amounts of cancer-fighting ingredients which caneffectively cure them in a matter of days.See how powerful your mind is?They believed that their health will be restored. They haveregistered in their minds that these pills will cure them of theirillnesses. In the process, the belief embedded within theirsubconscious came to reality.So how can you use your mind to attain success and achieve yourdreams? One of the most effective ways is to use the "as if"principle.Act as if you are the person you want to be. Act as if you arealready in possession of whatever you long to have.So what do you want to be? You want to be a lawyer, doctor,athlete, or newscaster? Think, act, and feel like one. You'll bemuch closer to your goal if you're constantly intact with yourobjective. Be obsessed with your dream. It doesn't mean that if youwant to be Superman you'll fly out the window. Not a good idea!It's not enough that you act like one, but you have to actuallyACT. Do what needs to be done. You might get so lost in yourfantasy dreamworld that you've forgotten to take some action. Letyour visions encourage and motivate you to actualize your purpose.The problem with the people of the modern world is that they aretoo preoccupied with worries, anxieties, and negative emotions. Asa result, they are adversely affecting their state of health.White lies have become prevalent nowadays in order to ease theburdens or to persuade others to do things that they thought areunattainable.There was once a weightlifter who couldn't lift weights in excessof 300 lbs. So his coach devised a clever idea and told him thatthe barbell he has to carry weighs only 300 lbs. With all hismight, the weightlifter managed to put it above his head. After heputs it down, the coach told him that he has just lifted 350 lbs.of weight! It's all in the mind!Henry Ford once said, "Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right."If you think you are poor, then you are; unless you properlycondition your thoughts to the positive mindset. I know it's hardto think rich if your environment is not conducive to such way ofthinking. Use your imagination then! Visualize your house to be amansion, your old car to be a limousine,... Well you get thepicture.There is absolutely no limit with what the mind can achieve. Butyou have to combine belief, will power, and action with positivethinking in order to arrive at your intended destination.
2010年4月19日星期一
父母的好习惯决定孩子的大未来
不成熟的人无法为自己所做的事情负责，所以必须从小就教育孩子：为自己所做的决定负责任，否则将会有越来越多的社会问题出现。有时候父母会过度保护孩子，使得孩子渐渐失去独立的能力。有时不妨试着放手让孩子去做些事情，不仅能够证明他们的成长，也能够建立他们的自信心。
有越来越多的孩子过着饭来张口、衣来伸手的日子，使得他们无法得知这些伸手可得的事物，是通过如何艰辛的历程而来。懂得感恩的人，才能明白幸福的所在。
2010年4月17日星期六
须知种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆
这就是因缘果報不变的一个真理。你种植的种子不良，你就决定不会有好的收成。这个比喻，让我们明瞭，种善因得善果，造恶业必定得恶報。世，世出间一切法，总不外乎因缘果報。
《法华经》里面讲的十如是，如是因，如是缘，如是果，如是報，一直到如是本末究竟。这个十句讲成一千句，说明宇宙人生就是一个因果循环的道理，一定要把它认识清楚，瞭解透彻明瞭，我们才能够避免造作一切业障。彻底明白的人，没有不求生净土。不能彻底明白的人，还留念在这个世间，你在这个世间確確实实可以得大福報。我们今天在这个世间，看到许多有福的人，拥有百亿财富，千亿财富，从那里来的？过去生中修福得来的，不是偶然的，没有侥倖偶然得来的道理。祸福都不是偶然的，都是自己过去世修的因，今生造的缘，因缘所现的報应。
2010年4月16日星期五
你的心态就是你真正的主人
你的心态就是你真正的主人
“ 要么你去驾驭生命，要么是生命驾驭你；你的心态决定谁坐跨，谁是骑师。”
是的！生活在这复杂的社会里，一定要对周围发生的一却-----包容，理解，互助，合作，創新；
“心态决定命运，积极的心态創造人生，消极的心态消耗人生”
选择了积极的心态， 就等于选择了成功的希望；选择消极的心态，就注定走入失败的沼泽。 如果你想成功，想把美梦成现实，就必须放弃这种扼杀潜能，摧毁你希望的消极心态！
是的！生活在这复杂的社会里，一定要对周围发生的一却-----包容，理解，互助，合作，創新；
“心态决定命运，积极的心态創造人生，消极的心态消耗人生”
选择了积极的心态， 就等于选择了成功的希望；选择消极的心态，就注定走入失败的沼泽。 如果你想成功，想把美梦成现实，就必须放弃这种扼杀潜能，摧毁你希望的消极心态！
“人定胜天”最关键的因素就是人自己。
让我们摆脱失败的借口，寻求成功的方法，永保积极的心态，相信成功的这一天不会遥远！
让我们摆脱失败的借口，寻求成功的方法，永保积极的心态，相信成功的这一天不会遥远！
2010年4月13日星期二
Developing a Millionaire Mindset
I've always been a big believer in "You Are The Foundation of
Your Own Success". If you're not going to lay a strong foundation
for your success, you're not going anywhere.And since you're the foundation, that means you have to first buildyourself. And that means building your mindset.Our mind is the greatest asset we can invest in. No other forms ofassets even come close. The potential return we can yield frominvesting in our mind is virtually unlimited.Stocks and real estate may give you a return of 100%, 200%, ormaybe even 500%. But your mind can potentially give you infinitereturn, if developed correctly.Millionaires are rich not because they're more hardworking, smarteror luckier. They're rich because they know how to play the game ofmoney and they invest intensively and extensively in their mind,knowledge and skills, especially financial knowledge and skills.Take Donald Trump for example. During the 90's, he went from being a billionaire to being on the brink of bankruptcy, with a personaldebt of more than US$900 million! But he made a remarkable comeback. And now, he's become a billionaire once again.In fact, Trump came close to bankruptcy on more than one occasion.But each time, he managed to pull it off and made his way back tothe top.The reason why he managed to emerge a winner again and again isbecause he has a millionaire mindset. Well... in his case, abillionaire mindset.Millionaires think and act very differently from the man in thestreet. The reason why you are not rich today is because you have a different set of habits, beliefs, values and attitude from themillionaires.
Your Own Success". If you're not going to lay a strong foundation
for your success, you're not going anywhere.And since you're the foundation, that means you have to first buildyourself. And that means building your mindset.Our mind is the greatest asset we can invest in. No other forms ofassets even come close. The potential return we can yield frominvesting in our mind is virtually unlimited.Stocks and real estate may give you a return of 100%, 200%, ormaybe even 500%. But your mind can potentially give you infinitereturn, if developed correctly.Millionaires are rich not because they're more hardworking, smarteror luckier. They're rich because they know how to play the game ofmoney and they invest intensively and extensively in their mind,knowledge and skills, especially financial knowledge and skills.Take Donald Trump for example. During the 90's, he went from being a billionaire to being on the brink of bankruptcy, with a personaldebt of more than US$900 million! But he made a remarkable comeback. And now, he's become a billionaire once again.In fact, Trump came close to bankruptcy on more than one occasion.But each time, he managed to pull it off and made his way back tothe top.The reason why he managed to emerge a winner again and again isbecause he has a millionaire mindset. Well... in his case, abillionaire mindset.Millionaires think and act very differently from the man in thestreet. The reason why you are not rich today is because you have a different set of habits, beliefs, values and attitude from themillionaires.
Today is the Blueprint of Your Tomorrow
Every day, be aware of the fact that you are designing a betterfuture for yourself and for the generations to come. Work hard soyour children and their children can have a brighter tomorrow.How you spend today is a reflection of how you will spend tomorrow,therefore, any changes you want to see in your life must begintoday. Positive change begins when you take your dreams seriously and launch into action.No matter how far you've come, continue to better yourself knowingthat the sky is not the limit, but rather the beginning of a newlevel. Make changes today because you want to see yourself living in a future free from regret. Devote time each day to things of eternal value and choose to be anactive participant in life. In turn, seize every opportunity to learn new skills and improve yourself. Your values and priorities are evident by the way you carryyourself each day. Recognizing that your future is not an isolated event, but the collection of individual days, resolve to make each day count.Be careful to form new habits that only bring you closer to thedream you have for your future. In order to be productive, eradicate negative behaviors from your daily routine. Instead of waiting around for something great, actively pursuegreatness in the mundane tasks of the day-to-day.Today, begin new, positive behaviors to reshape your future.
Excerpt from The 100/0 Principle, by Al Ritter
What is the most effective way to create and sustain great relationships with others? It's The 100/0 Principle: You take full responsibility (the 100) for the relationship, expecting nothing (the 0) in return.
Implementing The 100/0 Principle is not natural for most of us. It takes real commitment to the relationship and a good dose of self-discipline to think, act and give 100 percent.
The 100/0 Principle applies to those people in your life where the relationships are too important to react automatically or judgmentally. Each of us must determine the relationships to which this principle should apply. For most of us, it applies to work associates, customers, suppliers, family and friends.
STEP 1 - Determine what you can do to make the relationship work...then do it. Demonstrate respect and kindness to the other person, whether he/she deserves it or not.
STEP 2 - Do not expect anything in return. Zero, zip, nada.
STEP 3 - Do not allow anything the other person says or does (no matter how annoying!) to affect you. In other words, don't take the bait.
STEP 4 - Be persistent with your graciousness and kindness. Often we give up too soon, especially when others don't respond in kind. Remember to expect nothing in return.
At times (usually few), the relationship can remain challenging, even toxic, despite your 100 percent commitment and self-discipline. When this occurs, you need to avoid being the "Knower" and shift to being the "Learner." Avoid Knower statements/ thoughts like "that won't work," "I'm right, you are wrong," "I know it and you don't," "I'll teach you," "that's just the way it is," "I need to tell you what I know," etc.
Instead use Learner statements/thoughts like "Let me find out what is going on and try to understand the situation," "I could be wrong," "I wonder if there is anything of value here," "I wonder if..." etc. In other words, as a Learner, be curious!
Principle Paradox
This may strike you as strange, but here's the paradox: When you take authentic responsibility for a relationship, more often than not the other person quickly chooses to take responsibility as well. Consequently, the 100/0 relationship quickly transforms into something approaching 100/100. When that occurs, true breakthroughs happen for the individuals involved, their teams, their organizations and their families.
Implementing The 100/0 Principle is not natural for most of us. It takes real commitment to the relationship and a good dose of self-discipline to think, act and give 100 percent.
The 100/0 Principle applies to those people in your life where the relationships are too important to react automatically or judgmentally. Each of us must determine the relationships to which this principle should apply. For most of us, it applies to work associates, customers, suppliers, family and friends.
STEP 1 - Determine what you can do to make the relationship work...then do it. Demonstrate respect and kindness to the other person, whether he/she deserves it or not.
STEP 2 - Do not expect anything in return. Zero, zip, nada.
STEP 3 - Do not allow anything the other person says or does (no matter how annoying!) to affect you. In other words, don't take the bait.
STEP 4 - Be persistent with your graciousness and kindness. Often we give up too soon, especially when others don't respond in kind. Remember to expect nothing in return.
At times (usually few), the relationship can remain challenging, even toxic, despite your 100 percent commitment and self-discipline. When this occurs, you need to avoid being the "Knower" and shift to being the "Learner." Avoid Knower statements/ thoughts like "that won't work," "I'm right, you are wrong," "I know it and you don't," "I'll teach you," "that's just the way it is," "I need to tell you what I know," etc.
Instead use Learner statements/thoughts like "Let me find out what is going on and try to understand the situation," "I could be wrong," "I wonder if there is anything of value here," "I wonder if..." etc. In other words, as a Learner, be curious!
Principle Paradox
This may strike you as strange, but here's the paradox: When you take authentic responsibility for a relationship, more often than not the other person quickly chooses to take responsibility as well. Consequently, the 100/0 relationship quickly transforms into something approaching 100/100. When that occurs, true breakthroughs happen for the individuals involved, their teams, their organizations and their families.
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